Read Someone
Is my partner a narcissist, a psychopath, or just cold?
You have a list in your head already. What happened when you were ill. How they talk about their exes. What they did the last time you tried to leave. This turns the list into a reading on six axes, scored the same way as the Dark Mirror, and shows you where they sit against everyone else who has been rated by someone who loves them.
Every person you rate goes into their own dataset on the Index, never mixed with people who answered about themselves. The curve for partners opens at 30 ratings.
Things you have probably watched happen
- The charm that switches on for other people and off the moment the door closes.
- Arguments you lose without being able to say afterwards what you agreed to.
- An apology that somehow ends with you apologising.
Every option in the take is a thing a person did, not a thing they meant. Answer with what you saw.
Six axes, one verdict
Psychopathic, sociopathic, narcissistic, borderline, histrionic, neurotypical. The type they read as, the band on every axis, and where they sit against everyone rated.
How to carry yourself
Three lines per verdict from someone who has the pattern from the inside. Recognition, never a plan of attack.
Then send it to them
The result carries a link they can open and take about themselves. The gap between the two readings is usually the whole story.
Reading someone else?
Frequently asked questions
Can this tell me if my partner is a narcissist or a psychopath?
No. Nothing on the internet can, and this page does not claim to. It tells you what they read as on six axes, from twenty things you watched them do, and how that compares with everyone who has been rated. A diagnosis needs a clinician, a history, and the person in the room.
What if I am the problem?
Then take the Dark Mirror about yourself afterwards and put the two verdicts side by side. Most people who ask this question are not the problem; the ones who are usually do not ask.
Will my partner know I rated them?
Only if you show them. The result page never shows who did the rating. If you send them the link they can take it about themselves, and the gap between the two readings is usually the whole story.
Nothing on this page or its results is a diagnosis of anyone. What a person reads as on this instrument, as answered by one person who knows them, is a reading aid. Only a clinician can diagnose, and only with a proper assessment. Aggregates from rated people live on the Dark Mirror Index.