Ask Kanika · "Hey Kanika, so I met a new guy who’s flying seven hours to see me in two weeks.…"

Well, I'm glad you've got another guy coming in because that's the best way to control other men is to show them their Competition men by nature are very competitive and even if you don't rub his face in it Like you don't need to do that All you need to do is hint at somebody better being able to do the job that this guy is attempting to do This new guy sounds really interesting. m. m. He was there and Like it was yeah It was very endearing to me because I like people who do grant and gesture.

So I see the appeal in this other guy I don't think that you actually need to flip the dynamic because you you're you're handling it pretty well you just need to be able to triangulate as best as possible because that way you can utilize another person and Kind of outsource the work that you're wanting done