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Body Language

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Body Language

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We've talked about masks, but in order to successfully use a mask you need to have corresponding body language Like if I'm the damsel in distress, you're not gonna see me in my peak confidence. That's not very appropriate for that situation I'm not gonna become demanding and say no, I think we should go that way. No. No, I think I want that food Yeah, I know you're buying it.

But my opinion is more important. See that is not consistent you being Overwhelming overbearing it's kind of Completely Destroying what you're trying to create So when you are in this mask, you are meek. You're scared You don't know what's going on. You're this innocent little helpless baby a little cherub and people want to help you Don't get in there and get all dominant and angry and controlling remember beggars can't be choosers And when you're in distress, you're a beggar There are four or five things that you need to know about cementing body language when you're using these masks Let's talk about a confident dominant person They're not panicking.

They're not filling in silences They are speaking with utmost confidence and they speak slowly and clearly Because they're not afraid of your opinion. They'r

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