Ask Kanika · "Hallo, I am really glad to be here…I would like to ask you - how can I manage to…"

Hey, welcome to the community. So I'm just reading your question now and I understand how difficult it can be with narcissistic parents The thing is the less you give them in terms of your emotion the better because narcissists have a very very hard time when they can't extract emotions out of you and When you feed into their game by giving them praise or even giving them criticism They have many many reasons to attack you The problem is is that you know, they are the center of their universe and if you're not orbiting them correctly You're gonna be treated like shit. I Know it's really really difficult because you know, this is your mother and I've had issues with my mother she's she's not a narcissist, but I would say she land somewhere clearly in the class to be and I try to be somewhat understanding of that but with narcissists they erode your personal boundaries and The fact that you've mentioned that it makes you feel bad when you do have those boundaries well That's just kind of proving that this is so toxic and harmful to you. I Know that she will sometimes be friendly and I bet you she alternates it with her I see treatment of you or if she's like if you feel like you're w