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Ask Kanika · "How do you make sure that you're the prize when you're dating someone who has st…"

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Ask Kanika — answering a member question: "How do you make sure that you're the prize when you're dating someone who has status (e.g., a high position, lots of power, money and charisma)? They know they have options. How do you stand out…

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The biggest mistake women make when it comes to a powerful man or one who is exceptionally good-looking exceptionally rich exceptionally, you know in a position of power a worst thing that women do is Defer to them treat them like they should be on a pedestal Treat them like they are superior as soon as you start treating people like they're superior They will automatically see you as inferior because they see you're appealing to them and you are trying to appease them That means your own self-worth means nothing in comparison to what they think of you Once you get that sort of understanding you have to understand also that The way men like to be treated is not what they say it is very clearly seen and It's in so many so many situations But though you need to treat any man who you think is let's say above The way you would treat those losers in your DMS that you don't reply to the less attention a man like that gets from a woman and especially if you have like mutual friends you go out in a group and other men like are Interested in you and you Like you show interest in other men and not him He will start to get insecure because Attractive people just know we know that we're gonna

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