Ask Kanika · "How to do deal with having feelings for someone who is trained in ways like this…"

Honestly, you're in a tough position here because having feelings with someone like us is not a fun place to be because you have to kind of keep us on our toes constantly for us to continue to be interested, like the minute things get boring or stale or predictable, we will look for a new supply. The way to keep us long term is to always be just slightly out of reach but interested and always make that person feel like they can't get that warmth from anybody else because let me just tell you, psychopaths and narcissists struggle to connect with other humans and don't believe the outward arrogance, like we genuinely want human connection, it's just that we struggle with it because, well, we have to hide a lot of what we feel or what we think. If you're dealing with, let's say, a narcissist, you don't pursue them. You never pursue them because that just proves to them they're the prize.

If it's a psychopath that you're dealing with, then it's going to be a little bit harder in terms of understanding what they want from you. You can do an analysis of what you have that they could possibly want. If it is genuine, like they're just genuinely attracted to you, they genuinely love you or