Ask Kanika · "The man I’m involved with is comorbid with both ASPD and NPD diagnoses. I want t…"

Okay, so as you know, I have this exact personality type, so I'm going to tell you from the inside out what you need is something in you that other people cannot give this person. So for example, I have a best friend. m. reporting posts on a Snark page about me, which was doxxing me and everything, and I have never forgotten her.

I have never had bad intentions for her, and I have never not been there for her after that. In terms of a romantic relationship, if you are stable, if you are kind, but you're always just a little bit out of reach, that's kind of our kryptonite because we love the idea of being able to control somebody else. We love thinking that they worship us, that we dominate them, that we are in a position that is akin to God. And so because of that, it's very hard to resist the type of person who can reject us.

So if you're the one who is okay with walking away, psychopaths and sociopaths and narcissists do not like that at all. So if you're warm and tender and offering this kind of peace that they can't get anywhere else, or you let them let the mask slip, if you can make them secure enough to make the mask slip, that's going to help a lot because the mask is ver