Ask Kanika · "How do I get my husband to believe and act on the fact that we can get rid of hi…"

This is actually something that's going on in my life as well So it's kind of come up at the perfect point and I know you're suffering and I don't want you to suffer But I'm just trying to show you that I can absolutely relate because I have a very narcissistic brother And he's kind of taking control over the family unit and it's it's really pissing me off And he is so toxic and so disgusting and I understand exactly how you must feel I mean like I think this is the closest I can get to empathy What you can do is compile a list of evidence of what this woman has done because when the evidence is actually listed it's overwhelming and If you have a pros and cons list of being in touch with her, you'll notice that there'll be like almost zero pros of dealing with her other than she is just his biological mother and You know, they have a connection because of that so That's something that can be overcome like if I have to stop talking to my brother and as a result my mother also It's been hard not to talk to my mother, but I've done it and so can your husband I'm not sure what she's done so far in your life But I absolutely understand that it must be something severe because otherwise