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Okay, so I'm not super experienced with poly relationships probably like I'm a serial monogamous But I think there are many ways we can handle the situation. So the first The first way I would say is how important is it to you that these people know that you have a husband? Because if you can conceal that information that would be great But if you believe that goes against your moral code or something that you don't think that you would like to do Then absolutely. I understand that understand your boundaries and like obviously There's all kinds of ways to make people commit and the best way is to give them an unforgettable experience That they cannot recreate with somebody else so you need to sort of tell them about how magical like this poly life is and You need to make it seem like this person will never meet someone like you ever again And the way you do that is you make them feel seen you make them feel heard you give them like So much attention when they have your time that they don't even think about this husband if you bring him up Because that experience that you have with this person should be the only Thing that gets them through what they're going through like no matter