Ask Kanika · "I went on a very intense date with my former boss after months of strong chemist…"

I'm going to tell you something that you absolutely don't want to hear. You need to leave that man the fuck alone because he is not good for you. He can't just vanish for like six weeks pretending he has all the stress happening and he's going through a divorce. They always lie about going through a divorce.

They're very rarely actually going to divorce their wives and if they do and they're cheating, I mean, cheaters very rarely stop cheating. I really think that there are so many other people available that you shouldn't even consider this guy to be an option. I know you guys work together and you can always create more tension for him so you can dress real nice. You can act all flirtatious but never be within reach.

So you can flirt all day, you can communicate however you want but you always have to be ready to walk away. You have to always be ready to snatch away your attention so he starts to feel what it's like to not have it. There is nothing worse than not having that attention and as a man who's clearly married, he probably doesn't get that very much at home if he's stepping out. So it's best to take advantage of that situation and try to put him through as much trauma