Ask Kanika · "What is a tell tell sign your long term partner is seeing another person? Specia…"

So a telltale sign of your long-term partner seeing someone else is changes in their behavior around you. Do they suddenly have more shifts at work? Are they spending more time there for no conceivable reason? Have you been able to verify that your partner is not actually working?

Honestly, I would trust your intuition because your intuition is very rarely wrong on things like that. If you feel like someone's cheating, they most likely are. So first, I want you to evaluate in your own relationship how it changes. What has changed in order for you to feel this way?

And what behaviors are you seeing in your partner that suggest that there might be someone else? Because first, you want a logical, reasonable evaluation of the situation. And then you go in, you go in cold. You don't go in hot because hot gets you in trouble.

You don't want rage. You want to go in as icy as possible, okay? Nothing is going to ruin your resolve. I think that a good way to figure it out is to ask, actually not to ask questions, but to suggest things and wait for your partner to correct you because liars will often expose themselves like this.

If there's a huge change in schedule, if they're less intere