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Ask Kanika — answering a member question: "Hello! I wanted to ask, I have some struggle understanding some courses or advice involving romantic interests. I have never stayed up late thinking about someone or really felt too earnestly for…

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Okay, so the thing with this is I also had to learn how to do this because not only did I not form connections with people early, I also simply wasn't allowed to date the opposite sex, I wasn't allowed to even communicate with the opposite sex, so it took me a lot of time to learn how to appreciate sort of the relationship and how to express myself and understand it because it doesn't make complete sense to me straight off the bat. And so once I actually started to learn that, it was really, really helpful because I learned to pick up signs in terms of body language that shows that you're successful in what you're trying to do. I tend to, like, so when I was dating, I would go on a lot of dates because it really gives you experience and it also gets you more, like, prepared for each one. It's kind of like, you know, going to the gym where you start slow and then all you go, you know, to the point where you are making huge changes in your life, so that's kind of where that starts and ends.

If you are trying to sort of have a reading of people, you need to start watching their behavioral tells, so on the dates that you go on, what I'd recommend is that you offer silence for a fair b

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