Charima

Okay, so I planned a longer video, and I have some notes written down about it, so I'm gonna read off them a little bit, but I'm talking about charisma. And I'm not just saying sociopathic charisma, because while it's fantastic, it can always be improved upon. A lot of people are afraid of actually holding eye contact, but it's a severe, severe mistake to think that way, because when you do hold eye contact, you create a sense of arousal in someone. And if you have just come in to meet somebody, and you make them feel like the most important person in the world with your words, your gestures, eye contact is what seals that charisma.

It seals that bond that you guys are gonna have, even though it's not really a real bond, it's something that you've created and they've latched onto. The thing is, you need to make other people feel special. People love to talk about themselves. All the time, they have all of this shit to say, and it's like, bro, just shut the fuck up, okay?

Just shut the fuck up. But in the case when you want to impress someone, you wanna be charismatic, you let them talk about their bullshit stuff. So if they wanna talk about their ugly cars and their stupid obsess