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Dating multiple people explained - get the upper hand

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Stop giving away your body and your power ffs

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Okay, so I just want to jump on real quick and talk about this. This is how you gain power when you're dating. A lot of people will advise you to put your eggs in one basket because that's what's considered healthy and that's what normal people do. And me, I'm a serial monogamous, but I've always had multiple options around because I know people will act up.

I know people can get busy. I know that things are not always going to be ideal and it really pisses me off when people assume this means promiscuity because I specifically tell people, you do not have sex with these people, okay? Your body was not designed to get used by so many people. It was not designed to deal with so many heartbreaks.

That's why if you are dating multiple people at the same time, you're going to be very aware when they're treating you poorly, you're going to be very aware when they're stepping out of line, you're going to be aware that they're not texting you at the times that you want, but the thing is you're not going to panic because you literally have four other options on your phone right now. And this is not just for women, okay? Men also should not be sleeping around with all of these people. The

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