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Dealing with a narcissistic sibling
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Dealing with a narcissistic sibling
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So you guys aren't alone in this. I've dealt with a narcissistic sibling and the way you do it is to essentially either you completely dominate the sibling or you make yourself so boring that they can't actually have anything over you and it's it's pretty easy because Narcissists are so insufferable and unpleasant to be around that You naturally don't want to spend more time with this person and I want to discuss the first option So if you want to establish dominance, you need leverage So there must be something within the relationship that you have ownership of that you can revoke and take away whenever you want Narcs will get offended by anything and everything so we can't Let that be something that can dominate us We need to be able to harness those traits to manipulate the traits that they show us like they are deeply insecure people They hate themselves. They have no regard for Anyone who cares about them. So the best thing to do is become completely dominant in the situation take ownership of whatever you have and Ensure that you have a monopoly on the opinions of people around you secondly, you can Choose to become so boring that There's no need for you to be in that relatio
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